December’s Health and Wellbeing focus is Loneliness
Loneliness is a natural human emotion – we are hardwired to need social connections. By talking about it, we can support ourselves and others.
Investing time in developing relationships will support and enrich you every day and will help you overcome loneliness.
Confide in a friend
Sharing your feelings with someone you trust is a great first step to addressing feelings of loneliness.
Get involved
Join activities or groups that interest you. This is a great way to meet like minded people and have fun.
Don't suffer in (total) silence
Having the radio or TV on for background noise can help reduce feelings of loneliness.
Practice mindfulness
Meditation, yoga and other mindfulness activities are highly effective at reducing feelings of loneliness.
Spend time in nature
Spending time outdoors and nature is known as a mood booster, and a great way to forget about your worries. Have a look at volunteer opportunities in your local area.
Keep in touch
Regular contact with loved ones is important for connection and belonging. Video calls are a great alternative to in person chats.
Connecting with your work colleagues
- Talk to someone instead of sending an email or texting.
- Put five minutes aside to find out how someone really is.
- Have lunch with a colleague, offer to give them a lift or share the journey to work.
- Make the most of technology – video chat apps like Teams and FaceTime are a great way of connecting with colleagues.
- Arrange to regularly meet your colleagues, especially if you mainly work at home.
Connecting over the festive period
Did you know that… 36% of people are too embarrassed to admit they are lonely during the holiday season?
The holiday season is renowned for being a time for festive cheer, celebration and grand expectations – however, in reality it can be a taxing time mentally, emotionally, physically and financially for many people.
If you are feeling stressed, anxious or lonely – reach out to the Lighthouse Construction Charity who are available for free 24 hours, 7 days a week to support and your family with any personal issues, listen to how you are feeling and provide you with help and guidance.
• Call 0345 605 1956 (UK)
• Text HARDHAT to 85258 (UK)
• Download the free Construction Industry support app
Remember, you're not alone and there's lots of support and activities available to help you connect with others.
For more information and support please do visit:
- The Loneliness Project
- Let's talk more
- The Psychology of Loneliness
- NHS every mind matters - Loneliness
- Mental Health Foundation - things to do when you're feeling lonely
- All Octavius Employees have free access to AXA Employee Assistance Programme (EAP).